Double check all critical items and get affirmation about the times and places of all events with vendors including the caterer,the band,the minister,singers,florists and anyone else who has a time critical role.
Be aware of the current weather forecasts and or traffic problems such as new construction that may affect the way you should direct everyone to the wedding,rehearsals. Have contingency plans in place to notify and redirect everyone if changes are needed.
Get your luggage out and make sure it is suitable well ahead of the day you are going on the honeymoon and have most of your packing done. Have a carry-one somewhere that you won’t forget it for the inevitable last minute items.
Get the wedding rings and assign responsibility to someone to safeguard them and have them available on the wedding day. This is usually assigned to the best man.
Make sure that all the attendants such as bridesmaids,groomsmen.maid-of-honor and best man know what they will be doing and when.
Check that your bridesmaid gifts are wrapped up or labeled if you are giving personalized bridesmaid gifts so when you present your gifts to them the act will appear even more thoughtful and appreciative.
The rehearsal requires most of the same things you will need at the wedding. A complete copy of the vows is required for thorough rehearsal and you really want all the key players there so make sure you have all the numbers and ways to contact them so you can insure that the officiants,singers and other key players are there.
Get an updated confirmation of all travel reservations for the honeymoon and make reliable plans with contingencies for getting to the ship or airport.
Have multiple ways to contact everyone and a list of everyone’s numbers and give the best man a copy also.
Make sure your shoes are shined,polished etc. and if they are new try to get enough wear so they have traction so you won’t slip.
If you are having out of town guests, make sure that they have excellent directions and express your appreciation for their coming by making sure their accommodation’s are satisfactory.
Put the appropriate tips for officiants,the band,singer and anyone else that is performing a personal service in separate,marked envelopes and assign a reliable person to pass them out at the right time.
Check the bridal party clothes so any repairs,cleaning or pressing can be avoided at the last minute.
Check the brides wedding jewelry and the bridesmaids jewelry to see that the bridal party has the elegant coordinated look that you want.